Monthly Archives: July 2008


Our Bible School is over, and we are going home!

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The boxes are back into their places, the floors have been swept, the kids are gone.
The five nights of Bible School are over, and there are some very tired people.
The words of the theme song keep ringing in my head,
“Read to go where you may lead,
I’m ready, ready to serve . . .”

I look at the faces of the children, and there are so many different emotions and life experiences played out there.
My heart aches for so many of them.
I wonder how I can best serve them and their broken families.

But then there is incredible joy in my heart, too.
I look forward to time spent with my extended family.


We are getting ready to start a big Yoder Family Reunion tonight. 
And this is where I am called to serve for the next several days.
It feels like these sweet July days are filled to the brim with
Excitement
Opportunity
Adventure
Precious Times

My anticipation is tempered by the losses.
I feel keenly the faces that won’t be there —
 
Aunt Mary Lois, Aunt Clara, Aunt Gertrude, My Daddy, Uncle Monroe, Uncle John
(These are the ones in Heaven)

And there are those, who won’t be there, by reason of health:
Uncle Amos, Aunt Daisy, Uncle Luke, Aunt Cora, Uncle Eli, Aunt Ruth.

And there are those who won’t be there because they can’t.
(This makes me sorry)

And there are those who won’t be there because they won’t.
(This makes me sad)

But there will be many, many who will come gladly.
Because they can.
Because they want to.
Because when all is said and done,
 warts and all,
WE ARE FAMILY.

Welcome, dear family.

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I love the flowers that are all around Shady Acres.  They relax me and speak to my soul.  I especially like flowers that have a story. 

Some years ago, there was a sleep over for the female cousins on my Daddy’s side.  We had a wonderful time.  It was a sacred, heartwarming time, filled with laughter and tears.  One of the things we did that weekend was to bring something to give away that would tell something about our lives.  My cousin, Judith, had come to be with us that weekend, and it took a great deal of courage, because she really did not know us.

When the time came to share what we had brought, she brought out this greenhouse pot kind of thing with some “spear-ish” looking things in it with some stems topped with something that looked like dried blackberries.  She proceeded to introduce us to a lily that made delicate flowers and then folded up over the center and formed a blackberry looking seed inside of a parchment-looking cover.  She told the story of how her life paralleled this particular lily.  There were few dry eyes.

I was the one who got to keep the sqiggly looking things in the pot.  Some of the cousins took some seeds, and I don’t know what became of them, but I planted my little lily beside my back garage door, then transplanted it to a raised bed on the other side of the back door, and kept wondering when it would bloom.  This is my third summer with it, and very suddenly, just yesterday, I noticed that it had made a single flower (with the promise of many, many more)  I was ecstatic!

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This is larger than actual size.

In other news, Bible School has been moving right along. 
The balcony houses the elementary class, and it is such a temptation to look over the edge:

Justin
This fellow is being quite contained. 
We’ve had a couple of narrow squeaks!

The thing that always cheers me up is this little guy.
(His Mama is teaching, and his Daddy comes along to keep an eye on him.)

Sammy

Ah, Sammy.  You can’t begin to know how important you are to our church family!


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“Come to Bible School, Come to Bible School . . . “

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It is time for Bible School
at the little white church at the corner of
Canterbury and Carpenter Bridge Roads in Kent County, DE.

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How our church loves Bible School Children
 and the week of Bible School.  Our theme this year is
God’s Big Back Yard
And what a great job of decorating!  It is really sweet!

The children are the best of all, though.
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They love the snacks and games
(Don’t we all?)
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The first two nights have been well attended, greatly participated in, and a whole lot of fun.  (You could put the word “Work” in the place of “Fun” and you would still have it right for the adults and youth group people involved.)

Worth it???

Only eternity will tell the whole tale, of course.
But even without eternity, we would hate to miss this week and the opportunities it brings to us.

“Come to Bible School, Come to Bible School . . . “

“Lord Jesus, if the invitation to Bible School can translate into an invitation to make sure of Heaven,
And even one person would accept,
The Family in your Big Back Yard
Could know no greater joy!

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Remember that Handsome Young Groom of two weeks ago???

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Today he was going through some things to take to his house and found his old eye glasses.


It did not bring out the best in him . . .

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His pretty girl was not impressed.

Frankly, neither were any of us.

Except, maybe, HIM, because of the reaction it got.

Ah, Son.  You still light up my life!

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Every year, we think the picnic is the best ever.  And it seemed that way again this year.  There were at least eighty in attendance, and the weather co-operated perfectly.  It was such a happy day!

Faces in the crowd:
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Saloma                                                                                                Quentin

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                                  Bethany                                                     Betsy

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   Johnni with her baby, Jason, Jr.                                    Victoria

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              Hannah, hanging upside down                                                   Josh

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                    Sarah                                                                Maggie

The day was filled with so many things:
Soccer games:
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Sack races:
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And if you should fall down: . . .             Mommi and a friend can carry you through!

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There were Horseshoes:
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Water Balloons and Relays with spectators:  
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There were train rides on The Jones Express with Certain Man and  Mr. Jones himself::

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There were times for visiting:
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For Playing Table Games:

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For cooking hamburgers and digging in the candy basket and getting prizes:
     
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For being on the hammock:
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Being with Grandma (or talking to Grandpa)
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For Holding Babies:
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Signing autographs
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Churning Ice Cream:

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And then, at the end of the evening, when little legs were almost too tired to go any more,
it was great fun to get pulled in the wagon by Mommy or Poppi

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       On another note, some people have wondered about our pavilion — why we built it, and if there is a story behind it.

. . .  Well, actually, there is.  You see, on July the 14th, Certain Man and I will be married 35 years.  We had discussed a big trip — like a train trip across Canada to see the Canadian Rockies and to just have some time away.  But then we decided to build the pavilion instead.  The wonderful thing was, we were in 100% agreement about it.  It seemed like something that would benefit us, our family, and our church in the years ahead, and it just felt “right” somehow.  So when I look at the pavilion, it is a symbol (in a strange sort of way) of what is important to us, and of our lives together.  Both of us feel like the pavilion and the memories made there are wonderful gifts to us in recognition of the 35 years we’ve spend together.  And we’ve been blessed so much already by the people who have enjoyed good times there, and we look forward to a whole lot more.

And if you or someone you know would like to use it for an occasion, feel free to call.  The more it is used, the better we like it! 


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What can you say when the days are so filled with the things that make you laugh and make you cry?

To cry:

A whole card of wedding pictures mysteriously destroyed.   Even (maybe especially) the photographer is crying — HOW???
 
The absolute worst chicken check we’ve ever had as the final payment since beginning to raise chickens. HOW???

There are some other things, but they are personal — either to me or to people I love, so I will stop there in the “crying department . . . )
 
To Laugh:

Tomorrow:  Our annual July 4th picnic at Shady Acres.  The people we love and who love us show up for an afternoon of fun and food and eventually homemade ice cream.  Memories of past days are a kaleidescope of things that make me laugh and laugh!

A honkin’ big family reunion coming up.  Great help, great ideas, great people!!!  What could be better?

A clean house.  How thankful I am for a great friend who happens to be a great cleaner and who WANTED to work for me.  For the last six months, she has given me hope along with her help!

Bible School coming up next week — and there were 12 enthusiastic (in varying degrees) people who came to help invite children to Bible School last night.  Our group had some interesting contacts, and hopefully it will bring some children and will bear fruit for eternity. 

I lost another 1.6 pounds this week at Weight Watchers.  I didn’t deserve to, because I fell under the spell of my Sweet Mama’s Chocolate Sheet Cake at our Church’s carry-in on Sunday.  But I still did, and now I am actually two tenths of a pound near to 40 pounds lost since I started.  Believe me, this makes me LAUGH.

And God is good, all the time.  All the time, God is good.  In these harried, busy days when it seems I hardly have time to breathe, and when life seems so out of control for our family and for those we love.  When things happen over which we have no control and when uncomfortable things  happen as a result of our choices.  I choose once again to believe that it all comes past The Throne.  Every single bit of it.  It isn’t a surprise to Him, and it doesn’t change Who He is, or His intention towards us for good. 

Does that make me laugh?  You Betcha’!  For the joy of it all, for the security of it all and for the very incongruity of how it contradicts those things I am so often so quick to believe when circumstances make me want to sit down and cry!

And I am comforted to know that tears are a language God understands!

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