Of Crickets and Spiders and Beasties that jump

Our Girl Nettie was upset last evening. “Mary Ann,” she said, all concerned like. “You have a real problem with spiders! I’ve been killing them. They jump like crickets, but they are SPIDERS!!! You need to do something about them!” 

Yes, well. We’ve called them “Demon Crickets” because they look so evil. Like Middle Daughter, Deborah says, “It looks like a cricket and a spider had an illicit relationship. Nothing that evil looking could have come from a ‘holy union!'”

I understand that they are called (among other things) “Camel Crickets.” Are we the only family plagued by these creatures? They never have any rhyme or reason to their jumping, causing the younger generation to ponder greatly before heading to the basement for anything.

Which brings me to what I am thankful for on this 7th day of November. I’m really, really thankful that it wasn’t MY skirt that one of them jumped up into tonight when there was a quick trip made to the basement.

 

Sorry, Beebs!

 Correction:  This from Deborah’s comment on my facebook posting:

Deborah Yutzy I need to set the record straight. Rachel came up with the name “Demon Cricket”, and that’s her quote. I said that they looked like a spider and cricket got married and had a baby. Rachel said nothing that ugly could be from a holy union.

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Doing some catch up work!


 

Catching up on my Thankful list: 

November 3rd: so thankful for a safe trip to Morris, PA, to visit my brother, Nelson, and his wife, Rose.

November 4th: We were so blessed by the gathering of believers at Nelson and Rose’s mountain church. And then, so thankful for the chance to sit across the table from my nephew, Myron Yoder and his wife, Abigail Sakowski Yoder, and their three children, 

Luke, Isabella, and Sophia. Even more grateful for the chance to listen to the stories of their Faith Journey, and to see God’s provision for them as a family, as a couple, and as a family. All of this in addition to a positively wonderful meal, prepared by Rose for us: Deer steak, fried potatoes, peas, salad, and a myriad of desserts.

November 5th: Very grateful for the overnight visit of niece, Renee Keller, and then the evening visit of my Aunt Orpha Gingerich, along with her husband, Lloyd and their daughter, Barbara. For homemade mushroom soup for supper, with wonderful homemade bread, and family recipe tossed salad. Wonderful memories, wonderful times.

November 6th. That would be today. So thankful that a long ago mailed package arrived safely in Uganda to bless Youngest Daughter, Rachel Yutzy. Grateful, too, for a pleasant trip home from Pennsylvania, along with my Certain Man, who drove us so capably, and my Sweet Mama, Alene Yoder, who traveled without complaint, though the going was often hard and uncomfortable for her. Mama, I love you so much, and I am so glad that we could make this short trip to Nelson’s. Thank you for being such a good sport.

And so, dear friends, we had no internet, and almost no cell phone service, but we had a wonderfully relaxing and encouraging time. And since most of you know me pretty well, you know that one of the things that I am most thankful for is to be home in my own house on this cold November night.

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November 6, 2012

If any of you expected to hear a political post from me, you don’t know me very well.

I truly have nothing to say about this election.

But this is the season of Grateful Praise, and you don’t have to know me very well to know that this, of all things, is something that is very important to me.  I believe that a Godly woman should wear grateful praise as a garment, wrapped around the sharp edges of her personality, softening the scratchiness of her tendencies, and covering the naked patches of her soul where discontent or ingratitude or pettiness or even impatience would show through.

Ah, my sisters.  We’ve been given so much.  May we not forget.

And tonight, I am grateful for some really ordinary things:

The postal service.  A padded envelope, full of things for my faraway girlie’s birthday, arrived in Uganda today.  Belated, but THERE!

The highway system:  My Sweet Mama and my husband and I traveled for six hours today to get home after a wonderful weekend away.  Roads are wonderful things!

Two rows of lima beans, frozen from the weather while we were gone, which still yielded about six wonderful cups of shelled limas for a good meal later this week.

A house, clean, orderly and warm.  The weekly laundry done, folded, put away.  Curtains, left behind when I went to Pennsylvania, needing to be washed, ironed and rehung — all back where they belong.  A happy Nettie and Cecilia, well taken care of.  Middle Daughter’s conscientious and careful care, coupled with friend Normie’s filling in, and Eldest Daughter’s help made coming home a “gentle landing.”  

And now, my own bed.  Comfy, warm and clean. 

This heart gives grateful praise.

 

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Tonight, I am thankful for adoption. I am grateful for our family, brought together by so much more than blood. In this picture, there are four generations in Daniel’s family — and not a drop of family blood between them. The great grandmother in this picture is Sue Beachy Yutzy, (Daniel’s stepmother) holding Charis, (Jesse M. Bontrager and Christina Yutzy Bontrager ‘s Daughter) and my husband, Daniel and our daughter, Christina. Our family circle is so enriched by the people God chose for us, and this Mama’s/Grammy’s heart gives grateful praise. (Oh! Daniel wishes, for pity sakes, someone would have combed Charis’s poor Grandpa’s hair!)

 

 
 

Photo: Tonight, I am thankful for adoption.  I am grateful for our family, brought together by so much more than blood.  In this picture, there are four generations in Daniel's family -- and not a drop of family blood between them.  The great grandmother in this picture is Sue Beachy Yutzy, (Daniel's stepmother) holding Charis, (Jesse M. Bontrager and Christina Yutzy Bontrager 's Daughter) and my husband, Daniel and our daughter, Christina.  Our family circle is so enriched by the people God chose for us, and this Mama's/Grammy's heart gives grateful praise.  (Oh! Daniel wishes, for pity sakes, someone would have combed Charis's poor Grandpa's hair!)

  

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Day One

Inspired by others I have seen posting 30 days of thankfulness, I will try to post one thing I am thankful each day this month: Not going to have internet all the time, but I might as well get started. A little gratefulness never hurt anybody!

I’m very, very grateful to have found some very important papers that I lost. Whew! What a load off my heart!

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The Bonfire and a Prayer Request

We had our annual Bonfire and Hayride at Shady Acres last night.  Daniel asked me how long we’ve been doing this, and I said that I thought probably about ten years.  Last night was one of the most memorable yet because of the perfect weather, the gorgeous moon, and the wonderful people who came to share with us.  “Our kids” that come to Sunday School were all here — with one set of parents and the one Dad, and the kids were pretty wild.  Half way through the evening someone came into the house and dialed 911 and hung up.  I came into the house 20 minutes later to get something, and got a phone call from the State Police asking if everything was alright, wondering if they needed to dispatch someone out here.  Of course I was totally in the dark, but promised to investigate.  And (of course!) NO ONE knew anything at all and the evening went on.  I went back to see if 911 had, in fact, been dialed from the house phone and sure enough, there it was.  We can always surmise and suspect and wonder, but there were so many people here last night, not just the children, who could have done it, I guess, but I found other things amiss — lots of trash, just thrown down, a broken flower pot on the deck, overturned stands, etc., that make me wonder just what all happened under the cover of darkness.  
 
It reminds me again of how much we’ve been given in the training we’ve had, and the examples that we’ve had before us of being stewards of what is entrusted into our care — but it also reminds me of the fact that when we are called to a mission, when we feel strongly that God has asked us to be involved in lives that are messy or noisy or angry or broken, we can expect that it comes with a cost to our comfort and complacency and even (maybe especially) our treasures.  The flower pot that was broken last night was a gift from one of my cousins when I had surgery last spring.  It was a spikey geranium that has been incredibly beautiful all summer, and I had plans of wintering it over because it just wouldn’t stop blooming.  
 
I especially loved the big round bellied pot that she had it in, and I looked at that broken pot, strewn across the deck and wanted to cry.  I picked up the flower, found it surprisingly intact and repotted it in a handy, white plastic container, brought it into the sun room and hoped for the best.  Time will tell.
 
On another note, back just before Rachel left for Uganda, there had been an outbreak of the Ebola Virus — which was quickly contained, and travel was not restricted.  However, we received an e-mail this morning from the home office of her sending organization, Uganda Studies Program, informing us that there has been an outbreak of Marburg Hemorrhagic Fever (of the same family of viruses as Ebola) in western Uganda.   Not only is it close to “home” for this team, but one of the University Professors at Uganda Christian University (THEIR UNIVERSITY) has died.  The students of the team are with host families in Eastern Uganda this week (So Grateful!!!) but are scheduled to return tomorrow to the university.  Steps have been taken to isolate anyone who had contact with the professor, and everything has been done to insure the safety of the students that physically can be.  If you could just pray for Rachel, her Cedarville friend, Anna, who is in Uganda with her, and the rest of the team, I would certainly appreciate it.  
 
They are all in the hands of The Father, and it is a good time for me to trust HIM with another of my “Precious Treasures.” 
 
 

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Annual Bonfire and Hayride

Just like there isn’t anything else going on
this weekend in our community,

Tonight is the Annual Autumn Bonfire and Hayride at Shady Acres.

Bring potluck picnic foods,
your own hotdogs and hotdog buns.

Roasting sticks

Anything you need for making s’mores.

It isn’t as cold as it sometimes is,

But you still might want some
jackets and blankets for the Hayride.

If you have some kiddos
and you want to bring some riding toys,
feel free.

Looking forward to seeing (some of) you HERE!

 

 

 

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Happiness is an early morning call from the “Middle of nowhere, Uganda” Birthday Girl, where things are going much better than she had anticipated (dreaded!) including primitive bathroom facilities, and a friend to share the experience.  (She was sure that it would be her lot to have a lack of both important elements)  Yesterday she helped to “slaughter a chicken” — (Yeah, Rachel!) but is finding that life in the bush is far more leisurely paced than anything she has experienced so far.  She and her friend are living with a man and his wife who have one child still at home.  (I think she said “daughter” but I’m not sure.  Kinda’ hope so!)  happy  She sounded happy, relaxed, rested and very, very far away.

A great happiness in this Delaware Farmhouse this morning.

Happy Birthday, Rachel.  Daddy and I are so glad that God sent you to our house!

 

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Remembering Old Gertrude . . .

 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                 

 

 

She went to sleep one night, Never here to awake again, 


But everything was alright, Between her and Him, 

So she awoke in Heaven’s courtyard, 

Free from pain within, The angels gathered around her, 

And took her by the hand. 

Serenaded by angels, Up to the throne, 
Serenaded by angels, Finally at home, 
Surrounded by praises, To the King, 
Welcome to Paradise, The angels did sing. 

Now, I close my eyes at night, And I try to imagine, 

That city of brilliant light, Waiting for me, 

But my mind can not conceive, So I’ll continue to dream, 

Till I’m transported there, Then I will be. . .

Serenaded by angels, Up to the throne, 
Serenaded by angels, Finally at home, 
Surrounded by praises, To the King, 
Welcome to Paradise, The angels did sing. 

Words & Music by Kirk Talley

Gertrude Finnegan

Home Free

October 22, 2005

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3OzDBviY-Q

 

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Our trusty mini van has been in the shop.  Two weeks ago, on the way home from somewhere, it started to put out great volumes of cold air on the passenger’s side, while putting very warm air on driver’s side.  Unfortunately, the passenger was Our Girl Nettie, who is never quite warm enough, and the driver was none other than Yours Truly, who is always roasting in the car.  

Listen.  I tried.  I truly, truly did.  But the more I tried to aim the flow of air from my side towards OGN’s side, the colder she got and the warmer I got.  So I betook myself home with my slightly disgruntled passenger, and called our trusty repair shop.  They said to bring it in, they would work on it pretty much right away.  So, with the help of Certain Man, we got the van into the shop and when I asked how long it might be, they thought it would be simple.  Maybe a day or so.  Perhaps two or three.

They called me the next day and told me that it needed an $84.00 part, and that they had ordered it.  When it got there, they would get it on and it should be ready to go.

They called me a couple of days later to say that the part they thought they needed was part of a bigger part — a heating and cooling module that was all one piece.  When I heard “Cooling” and “Module” used in the same sentence, my heart sank down to my toes.  “That sounds expensive!”  I said.

“Um, yeah, well, it is a little pricey.”

“Like how much?”  

“It looks like it is going to be over $900.00,” he said, sadly.  “These things don’t come cheap.”

“Well, I need to talk to Mr. Yutzy,” I said.  “He’s been wanting to get a different van and with around 265,000 miles on it, I’m not sure he will want to put that kind of money into it.  Do you notice any other problems?”

“Nope!  She runs like a top.  She’s a good car!”  (Why are cars always a “she” and not a “He?”)

“Well, I’ll call Mr. Yutzy and someone will let you know.”

I got off the phone and called Certain Man.  He was not happy.  At all.

“Should’a bought that van that was beside the road up here at Frederica,” he said.  “Now it’s too late.  The guy just sold it.  We could have had it cheap.”  This was a very nice Town and Country van that had sat for months beside the road, and Daniel had watched the price come down and down and down.  Just when he was ready to swoop in and make a deal, someone bought it out from under him.  

“I was praying about that van, Daniel,” I said now.  “And I really do believe that if it was supposed to be ours, it would have not been sold.  God has something else for us, I’m sure.”

“Hon, I’m not convinced that you are right about that.  If people procrastinate and procrastinate and lose something because they waited too long, that’s not God’s fault.  That’s what happens when you don’t get on the ball and do what you ought to do.”  He was a little irritated.

I decided not to say anything else.  I was pretty sure that it must not have been for us or it would have waited.  I’ve seen God do that over and over for us, and it seems trifling to me to stop trusting him now. But I wasn’t the husband in this situation, and I wasn’t feeling the brunt of the reality of an old van with lots of miles needing almost a thousand dollars in repairs.

“So what are you going to do?”  I finally asked him.

“I’m gonna’ do what I have to do,” he said fiercely.  “I’m gonna’ fix it!  I can’t get anything for it if I don’t fix it, and we need it right now with the Sunday school kids and such.  I am going to get it fixed and then we can decide from there.”

So he called them and told them to order the part.  That was last Thursday.  They thought the part might come in on Friday and that we could certainly have the van back at least by Monday.  Well, Monday came and went.  As did Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday.  Certain Man finally called to see what was happening, and they said they were expecting it any time now, and if we wanted to take the van, we could do that, and just bring it back.  This wasn’t quite acceptable to us because of the changes in the weather.

Friday.  I wasn’t feeling very charitable towards anyone.  I had been out of a van for almost two weeks and it didn’t seem look very hopeful.  But then midway through the day, a technician called and said that our van was finished, didn’t we want to come and get it?  Did we ever!  Certain Man had some errands to run, so he left me out at the door at Walls Service Center, and I went to pay.  Daniel left, and I exchanged some pleasantries, paid my bill, and then I was done.

I went out and got into the van.  I decided to run it straight through the car wash first thing because no one had even dusted it off.  It looked kinda messy on the inside, but at least it would look better on the outside for a few days.  As I headed off down the street, I leaned over and turned on the Air Conditioner.  This Autumn morning was gorgeous and the sun had made it really warm in the car.  I hadn’t gone a block until I noticed that the unit was not cooling.  A bit.  I turned it off, I turned it on.  I turned on the circulating fan.  I turned it off again.  I turned on the fan full blast, and adjusted where the air was coming out.  Nothing worked at all.  I drove another block and then decided that I should just go back and insist that they fix my “module” right.  I couldn’t stand the thought of some of my family feeling that they were going to freeze to death, and the rest of the car load being so warm they couldn’t see straight.

I looked for a good place to turn around, formulating in my mind what I was going to say to them — Not in a scolding way, but in a way that they would know I wasn’t happy that they hadn’t fixed my van correctly the first time.  I started to pull my van off to the side of the road.

. . . And then I saw it.  The temperature control was turned all the way to “HOT” and man, oh, man, was it ever working!  I quickly slid the controls back to the “blue” part of the gauge and Oh!  Sweet relief.  The air that was pouring out of the vents was pure and cool and so refreshing.  I decided that I didn’t need to go back, after all.  I ran the van through the car wash and headed down the road.

I was one happy gal.  It doesn’t matter that my van is old, it’s still my favorite vehicle to drive.  Now that it has been repaired, I’m hoping not to hear any more words that have to do with replacing “Old Faithful!”

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