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For anyone who would like to view the funeral of Dawn Yoder by internet, the link is below.  The funeral will be held at 2:00 pm Central Daylight Time on Saturday, July 11, 2009.
 
Please forward this information to anyone you know who could benefit from this. 
The website to view the funeral on Saturday is:
 
 
If you have questions about this connection, you can call Leo Hursh (251-294-1202) or Brent Yoder 251-655-6462.

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Friday Morning Ponderings–

It’s a beautiful morning in Delaware.  I don’t know when I have ever known a nicer July 10th in my whole life.  The sun is shining, there is a wonderful breeze and the temps are only in the high 60’s.  Nothing but gorgeous! The beauty of this day is a comfort to my aching heart.  When I look at this date, I am reminded that 20 years ago today, our family was moving into the big old farmhouse on the little farm we call Shady Acres.  So much has happened in those 20 years.
 
I have so much to do today that I turned off my computer.  Then got a phone call, answered it, sat down in my chair, and there was Deborah’s computer, sitting there, alert.  I picked it up, finished my phone call, Then turned to my e-mail.  I had written to Jon personally yesterday, and he wrote an incredible warm and comforting reply.  I read again it for the umpteenth time and I find myself with tears that just won’t stop. 
I wish so much we could be on our way to Alabama.  My knees continue to be a problem, and have thrown something off in my back.  I am getting help — it is getting better, but my doctor advised against going.  It seems like there just should have been a way to work it out.  I know there will be lots of people there, and that Jon and his family will be held in those loving arms of compassion and caring — and that my paltry presence will scarcely be missed, but I still wanted to be there.  I wanted to look in Jon’s face and see for myself that his eyes are clear, that his faith is strong.  I want to look at those incredible kids and remind myself that the five of them will weather this somehow.  I want to be with a community of grief where I won’t have to explain my copious tears, where I can draw strength from a group of people in a common sorrow — experiences that cannot be replicated when you aren’t there.  So I admit that my reasons are somewhat selfish — maybe more than somewhat.   Somehow for me, Death makes the most sense when I am in a celebration of life service for someone who has gone straight into the Arms of a Loving God that they have served faithfully and well.  The songs, the scriptures, the remembering, the tears all come together to somehow make some sense of the very thing that, by our very creation, we least understand.
 
And so, what do we do, those of us who are doing ordinary things in our homes when our hearts are THERE?  Somehow, I believe that Dawn’s life is honored by ordinary things done well and done for the love of our families and done in the power of an extraordinary God.  So I guess it is time to dry these tears, get on with the business of this day.  Very ordinary things — Laundry, some ironing, getting ready for a wedding tomorrow, some desperately needed straightening and cleaning and the inevitable bookwork that never stops at this house.  I thought that I could stay home all day and just concentrate on things here, but an early morning phone call reminded me of a late afternoon appointment for my Nettie girl’s yearly physical.  That gives me a dead line, and will help keep my hands busy, while I listen to the music of Heaven on my CD player and pray for my grieving loved ones. 
 
“Let us pray for eachother,
Not faint by the way,
In this sad world of sorrow and care.
For that home is so bright.
And it’s almost in sight.
And I trust in my heart, you’ll go there.”
My dear, dear Friends — Are you really thinking Heavenly thoughts today?  
 As I wrote to my Daughters this morning–
“Oh, my precious girlies, in all the things you do, in all the things you see, make sure of Heaven.  I don’t mean to cast a pall over the trip, but you cannot ignore the Heavenly while enjoying the earthly.  Dawn’s death was so unexpected.  I mean, how often does a bolt of lightening come out of a sky where the sun is shining through and KILL somebody???  I’ve had to think so often “What if it had been me?”  Or “What if it had been one of my girlies in far away Europe?”  How very different the chapter of “Summer of 2009″ would be written.  We’ve had some wonderful times this summer, and I hope you are looking at all the pictures.  4th of July picnic, etc. And I’ve hardly felt like I have time to write — always something so pressing.  Even this morning, when I should be doing so many other things, but I felt such a need to connect with you, and wanted to just give you part of where my heart is on this glorious but sad morning.  Please know that you are always in my heart, always  in my thoughts and always in my prayers.  I love you both so intensely, and if that had been me instead of Dawn, I want you to know that if I were given any last thoughts, they would be for my precious kids and their incredible Daddy.”
 
And Now I really do need to do something in this house.  I love you, dear Xanga Friends.  May this day be a day lived in God’s incredible grace, and may we all make sure of Heaven.
~Mary Ann

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Dear friends and family,
  Forgive this form letter, but we do want each one to know that your expressions of love and regrets are being taken directly into our hearts.  We as a family praise God for the wonderful time that we could have Dawn here on earth with us.  We are sorrowful, but not forsaken, and it is because of people like you who care, and are lifting us up to the throne of God.  Gloriously, we sorrow not as though who have no hope, because we know where Dawn is right now, enjoying fellowship with the One who created her and worshipping at His feet, the same way she lived her life.  She was the best example of someone  who walked with God, and I was privileged to be her husband!   Although we may not sleep, we are securely safe in God’s perfect love, and his perfect timing.  God bless you for your prayers and support during this time.
 
Jon Yoder and family

 
The funeral will be 2:00 pm Saturday, July 11 at First Assembly of God Church on Main Street in Atmore.  There will be a viewing from 4-9 pm Friday July 10 at Mennonite Christian Fellowship, 245 Tennant Drive, Atmore, AL 36502, and also prior to the service on Saturday.  We treasure your prayers during this time.

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Dawn, our amazing mother, wife, daughter has been declared brain dead by 2 doctors, with her EEG showing no activity.  We believe that she entered heaven instantaneously 2 days ago, but we are now as a family turning her body over to the organ donation center of Alabama, so that she may share her life with others.  That is typical of the life she lived, and it is so much like her.  We will miss her, but we know she is in God’s protective care, and we want to praise Him for his faithfulness.  I write with this tears in my eyes, but with joy in my heart as Precious in the eyes of the Lord is the death of his saints.  And she definitely received “Well done, thou faithful servant, enter thou into the joy of the Lord.  She is free at last!   Jon, Robert, Kristin, Amber, and Stephen and all the family

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Update:

There is not much to say except that things are really, really uncertain right now.  The damage to Dawn’s brain is extensive, and there really is not much hope.  We know that our God is a God of miracles, and we know that He can change things even now, but if not — Does that mean He isn’t God?

I’ve been thinking so much about Dawn and wondering so many things —

Dawn and her roses

 

What was on your mind, as you stepped into that ordinary morning?
Trash to be taken out, blueberries to pick.
So conscious of your Heavenly Father,
Such an incredible wife,
So very nurturing as a Mom.
So alert to the needs around you,
So faithful as a friend.

Ah, Dawn, what have you already seen?
Can you see your family keep their loving vigil?
Do you see us praying desperate prayers?
Do you know how much we want you back?
Do you hear the angels singing and your Father’s voice?
Do you feel the pull of Heaven and light and perfect health?

We want to ask “why” (and we do, we do!!!)
Somewhere in these desperate hours
We wait and wish for an august explanation,
And bang our prayers like bloodied hands against
The wall that stands between the known and where you are.
And wait.  Our tears an offering of our love.

 

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Please Pray for my cousin and his family:

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We got word this morning that Dr. Jonathan Yoder’s wife, Dawn (Good) Yoder, of Atmore Alabama was struck by lightening while taking out the trash.  Details are sketchy — initially they didn’t hold much hope for her survival.  However, they did find a pulse, and she is on her way to Mobile.  She is breathing at least some on her own, but things are really “iffy.” 

We have seen God do mavelous things over and over again.  May He be pleased to intervene on behalf of this family NOW!!!

 

 This update from Jon–

Thanks for the prayers–Dawn is at Springhill Memorial Hospital in Mobile, and just had a heart cath which was normal.  She is stable from the standpoint of blood pressure and heart, but the main concern is her brain and its function after being without oxygen for as long as 10-15 minutes.  Please pray that the damage there will be minimal; We should know something in 24-48 hours.
  What happened was that Dawn was taking the trash out this morning, and was struck by lightning around 8:45 am.  Stephen was at home and saw the lightning, but Dawn had a note that she was going to be picking blueberries at the neighbors, so he didn’t look for her.  A friend from church found Dawn in the front yard unconscious and not breathing, and we are not sure how long that was.  She was in V-fib when she got to the hospital, but they were able to get all of that back.  She is an amazing lady, and if anyone can recover, it will be her…with God’s help—Jon and family

Another update:

Hello to all!  This is an update on Mom.  We really don’t have a lot of new information.  She is still comatose but her vital signs are stable.  The CT scan of her head showed bilateral subarachnoid hemorrhage, but her main problem continues to be anoxic brain injury.  In other words, she has bleeding on the brain and probably had an extensive period without oxygen to the brain.  So at this point, we just have to wait and see and see what the extent of the brain injury is going to be.  She still has not responded in any way.  The neurosurgeon just went in to see her. Thanks so much for all the calls, prayers, and encouragement.  We can really feel the support of the body of Christ.  We will try to send updates as we find out more.  Keep praying for God’s will, peace, strength, and wisdom for the decisions ahead. 
Kristin for the Yoders

 

Please, please, please keep praying!!!

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THE PICNIC

Some of you are regulars at the fourth of July picnic at our house, but I did want to post a reminder in case anyone needed added impetus to make it here.

When Certain Man and I moved to Delaware from Ohio, one of the things we missed was the Labor Day Picnic that was held at United Bethel.  It was something people looked forward to year after year, and it was a great time to  get together, visit, have fun, play games, and enjoy some good food. 

One year, shortly after we moved to Milford from Greenwood, the church from Brooklyn, New York, came down over the fourth of July.  It seemed like a fun thing to make a picnic that day.  There were lots of inner city people who had very little exposure to country life. We were newly settled in at Shady Acres, but Certain Man thought that our little corner of God’s earth would be the perfect place to have it.  And that is where it all began.

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There will be relays

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And Food

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Hopefully, a train ride

The Chef and Kent
This was certainly a while ago!!!

Fellowship

(Are two “fellows in the same boat” the same as “Two fellows in the same ship”????)

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When:  3:00 Today, July 4, 2009

Where:  Here at Shady Acres

Who:  Anybody who wants to come

Bring your favorite picnic food, lawn chairs, blankets, etc.
We have some riding toys, but often the small fry like to bring their own bikes, trikes, etc.
Hotdogs, hamburgers will be provided (bring your own rolls– and take home what doesn’t get eaten, please!)
We plan to churn several tubs of homemade ice cream after supper.
Bring on the strong arms and co-operative spirits.

Hope to see you there!!!


 

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Remember these???

Happy Laundry

 

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I have a very big problem.

Someone borrowed these sacks for some kind of a party, and I don’t remember who did.

We have our annual fourth of July picnic on Saturday, and we NEED them for our annual sack races.

I attempted to buy some new ones and they aren’t available.

I could get Halloween ones, but I am not impressed!

If you know where these are, PLEASE call me ASAP!!!

If you have a dozen sacks that we could borrow if these don’t show up,

PLEASE call me ASAP!!!

THANKS!!!

302-422-5952

 

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Letter from Deborah

This letter came on Sunday.  Yesterday, they took a 15 hour overnight ferry ride to Greece where they will be for a few days.  The ride was extremely tiring, but they say that “Greece is worth it!”

Dear Mom,

We’re still alive, well, and safe. Naples has been kinder and friendlier than everyone told us, and we really enjoyed seeing Pompeii and Vesuvius yesterday. Today we are off to the Island of Capri.

Yesterday we started out in downtown Naples proper, which is considered the worst section of town. Our hostel doesn’t recommend seeing anything there, but I wanted to see the Veiled Christ in Capella Sansevero. It looked like a little hole in the wall, and if there hadn’t been a short line of tourists outside, we might not have found it. It was amazing! All the statues were detailed and WOW! The statue of Christ is laying in the center of the church, and looks like it is draped in a thin cloth, but it’s all one piece of marble. There are two other statues that are also really neat- a lady draped like the one mentioned, and a man trying to escape from a net. The net is marble. How anyone could have designed and carved it is beyond me. We couldn’t take pics there, but you should be able to find them online. (Google! :))

After that we went on to Pompeii. I’ll tell you about that, and about Roma, later.

We are trying to get out of here in time to get to a church, which is why this is short. Holly wanted to send the email that she wrote to her family last night, so I had a bit of time.

All prayers are appreciated, since we are still in Naples! Love you!

Deborah

 

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